Alright, lovelies, this is where you can ask me anything. This started because whenever I’ve done author events / takeovers on Facebook one of the most popular posts has always been my ‘Ask Me Anything’ where I let people ask me questions about BDSM, living the lifestyle, my experiences, and a hundred other things. I’ve had a lot of people message me to say that it’s helped them, and then one day my friend (Livia Grant) asked me why I don’t post these on my website. Honestly? I never thought about it, and I never like to shove my thoughts on BDSM into people’s faces, but I’ve been an advocate for the community for years and I love to answer questions for people looking to try it out, or those curious about what the world is really like and what the people are like – so I’m inviting all of you to ASK ME ANYTHING!

I’ll post these blogs on Sundays when I have topics for it and link them across social media so you can see them, if you want me to name you (or link to your website or email you directly) go ahead and provide that information and just tell me… but if you want to remain anonymous, feel free! Check below to see if your question may have already been answered, and if it hasn’t scroll to the bottom and submit yours!

Most Popular ‘Ask Me Anything’ Topics

• What if I want a little kink in my vanilla relationship?
• What if my relationship isn’t sexual and I still want kink?
• How do I get into the lifestyle?
• What’s all this about soft limits and hard limits?
• Do you have any tips on anal training?
• What is subspace like?
• What is sub drop?
• What if things go bad? (violence / assault / abuse help)
• How far is too far in letting your Dom have control?
• Can you be Type-A and submissive?
• What is ‘Cigar Service’?
• There’s no “right” answer in BDSM!
• Being submissive in public (without blowing your cover)!
• What’s it like to be a Domme?
• What is BDSM like from the Dom’s POV?

Hopefully this is as helpful on my blog as it has been on Facebook, lovelies.